... helplessness one of the worst feelings in the world...

i have a poem of regret, 
the time you get into debt
whether its of a favor or of pain
sometimes there's just nothing to gain
you help and you do
but there's no one who cries for you

a little lesson for those who don't already know
worry about your own problems 
before you go to fix others
if you can't handle yourself 
then you can't handle someone else

-the ever so profound abdullah

it's not being unable to get help yourself, but not being able to help someone else

hm.. i can usually tell when i'm unwanted.. but i guess sometimes it has to be shoved in my face before i realize it, sorry about that... yea, i just have a bad tendency to meddle in other people's affairs... i tend to make things worse than they already are... i just need to learn when to leave things alone